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HERE WE ARE: DREAM AGAIN, NOVEMBER 2022

Believing that good things can and will happen for you is a difficult belief to restore when it's been eroded. On the one hand, you’re attempting to manage how much you can open your heart and hope for the best of the best, whilst also managing your expectations, just in case your desires are not met. As we age, we dream with a pinch of salt, because there has been enough time and experiences lived through that teach us to spare a little bit of ourselves to soften the blow of inevitable disappointment. So, we doubt very much if we can ever really land the dream job, the dream partner, and the dream life – so we spare ourselves the heartache, which means we reduce ourselves and the most that we can be to avoid hurt. This is how it works: When you hold back on sharing yourself with the world, there is a greater limitation placed on living the dream life because you are not giving to life what life gave you in the first place, and then feel punished. Meanwhile, it’s not a punishment, it’s the consequence of the intelligent, superior system of the created universe.


Dreaming again includes allowing the memory of long forgotten possibilities to return and to take up space in your heart again. Open for possibilities to enter your imagination again and welcome the creation of new possibilities. Now that you have lived and gained experiences, you have data to reconsider somethings, change your mind and expand the meaning and embrace the different forms of dreams. Carefully consider dreams you have and check if they are yours or someone elses. Maybe you thought it was your dream because others expected it of you. Maybe you convinced yourself that a certain dream needed to match a status symbol for you to accept it as your own. Maybe you need to restore your original dream.


Another consideration to make is the feasibility for dreams to stay the same after being exposed to information that affects that dream? Or different information in the world. Or to be exposed to the information of what it TAKES to get “The Dream”, because truly if we were to see the dream and the journey of it, we would reconsider. At the same time, it is also the reason why we aren’t exposed to the cost because we wouldn’t go for the dream. Not seeing ahead is mostly there to serve us. What we know in proportion to what we don’t know is massive, because a lot of what we don’t know, we have no clue that we don’t know it.


As we grow older, we evolve, and what also evolves is our values system, and our belief systems. Our beliefs change because we learn and transform. How can new dreams not emerge from evolution?


Your skills and abilities are an excellent place to determine what direction to move into. I knew this intellectually, but I resisted my talents for years because I didn’t see the work as prestigious enough as being a doctor or a lawyer. Being creative is something that I didn’t think could be lucrative, and therefore not fulfilling. Dreams are inseparable from talents. Dreams often don’t make sense, and it’s not always clear how they will happen. What I know now is that in rejecting dreams, it is rejecting self. This also results in a dark cloud of resentment and animosity in your aura, and everything you do for others has an edge of resentment. It your own personal hell. All the jealousy, resentment and anger is because you are blocking your dreams, and blocking some of your most divine talents. Dreaming is honest and vulnerable. When you dream again, you fall back in love with the possibilities of life, and you expand them from a new perspective.


Dreams don’t come true. The dream is true, believe in it!


Practise dreaming:

All discoveries, inventions and world renowned creations started with a problem, then came: Imagine, I wish, I wonder. Define the problem, and then expand the possibilities of how this problem can be addressed.


Imagine we could travel to other countries quicker... Today we have airplanes.

I wish I could have kids at a later stage... Today we can freeze eggs.

Imagine a free South Africa... Today we can vote.

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Imagine if I applied and got accepted...

Imagine if we took a step back before speaking or reacting from habits...

Imagine if I could start believing that I am worth everything I want and I can get it...

Imagine if I could become more beautiful than I already am...

I wonder if I can redefine this relationship...

I wonder what would happen if...

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When you practise dreaming a while, forget the how for now. In the next articles, we will get into the how of things. For now - Dream On! There is one more possibility you haven't considered, stretch your mind to it.


Whilst you dream for yourself, can I stretch you to dream for the country?



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